Break ups are never easy. They can ruin your life. They can make your life happier. They can piss people off. They can make so people enjoy life more.
Over two weeks ago, my boyfriend and I decided to call it quits. Well I knew some of our friends were going to take it hard. My (ex) boyfriend and I had been together for over 2 years. Our mutual friends didn't know how to react to us, (ME), at first.
The first couple of days were okay. Then I'm not sure what happened. But they quit texting, I'm getting dirty looks, and I stop getting invited to go place or to hang out with them.
At first I thought it was just because (tjh) had been friends with them longer. and I was more of his tang-along.
Well now I'm seems that I'm, ME, is the cause for all the cold shoulder mess that is going on.
I, ME, broke his heart. I just drop him with no reason at all. I, ME, was seeing someone else. I, ME, cut everybody off.
But I, ME, didn't do anything of these things. I'm not sure who is saying this stuff. I really don't. I would really like it if they wouldn't.
Because NO ONE truly knows what mine and my ex's relationship was like. They don't know the things we had been through. They don't understand why we broke up.
But most importantly.........IT IS NONE OF THEIR BUSINESS!!!!!!!
if I wanted them to know I, ME, would have told them.
What started all of this...(well it was started before this, but this was the icing on the cake), last night I was seen by 3-4 different people with a friend at the movies. We didn't go together. We did sit together and I did talk to my friend after the movie. But we didn't go on a "date" together.
Before the movie even started my friend was getting text from other people asking why he was at the movies with a certain girl. And that my Ex was mad because we were together.
and once again...........IT ISN'T ANY OF YOUR BUSINESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
For the las 6 months I had been to the movies by myself. I went, paid my own ticket, and sat in a row by myself for over 6 months. No one wanted to go. So last night when I saw an opportunity not to be/sit by myself I took it.
It led to people taking pictures of me and my friend. It led to people texting him during the movie. It led to us having a fun night also.
So to the people who are not mature enough to stay in your own business................get over it and move on.
THING HAPPEN....PEOPLE MOVE ON AND GROW!
But if your not mature enough to except that then, don't put my name in your mouth, don't talk to me, don't look at me, don't try stalking my facebook, (because I deleted anyways!) and don't do anything that involves me!
For now I see who my real friends are and believe me Quality is better than Quantity.
